My future spouse has been fairly hands-off for the wedding planning and that's been fine but the one thing that I've been trying to get them to help me out on is to pick out their wedding outfit. They are non-binary and tend to have a bit more out of the box thinking when it comes to fashion which is totally cool with me, but they also have a hard time with making decisions so that means that we really haven't made any progress in terms of figuring out a wedding outfit for them. What I know so far is that they definitely DON'T want a suit and that they have the idea of a wedding cape in their head. I've show them a few options for wedding capes (and could probably sew a decent one in a pinch) but they haven't been excited about anything I've shown them so far. My questions are: 1. how long should I give them to try to find something on their own and does anyone have any cool references for wedding capes for masculine body types? Trying to lean away from anything too high fantasy. I've attached a picture of the only reference that they gave me haha. I'm worried that we will get to the wedding date and they will just pull something out of the closet...
