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Jayla
Champion October 2025

Style Showdown: Grande or Intimate?

Jayla, on December 4, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Planning 166

Are you supersizing your wedding with a large guest list? Or are you keeping it small and intimate? Grande? Photo by The Nichols Studio in Austin, TX Or Intimate? Photo by Webinet Photography in Rocklin, CA Next Question: Greenery or Flowers? Back to the Beginning: Style Showdown!

Are you supersizing your wedding with a large guest list? Or are you keeping it small and intimate?

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Photo by The Nichols Studio in Austin, TX

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Photo by Webinet Photography in Rocklin, CA


Next Question: Greenery or Flowers?

Back to the Beginning: Style Showdown!

166 Comments

  • Alyssa
    Master December 2019
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    I wanted 30-40
    SO wants 50-80

    i still think it’s going to be intimate
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  • Lacy
    Super December 2018
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    Intimate for sure.
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  • Yolanda
    Dedicated July 2021
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    Intimate for the win.Smiley ring Smiley ring Smiley ring
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  • T
    Just Said Yes October 2020
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    Intimate for sure
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  • Natalie
    Beginner October 2018
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    Intimate, enjoy the day with family and friends is the key.

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  • D
    Just Said Yes November 2020
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    Intimate 40 max lol
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  • Jayla
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    That's a good size!

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  • Jayla
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    Jayla ·
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    This is very true!! It's also a nice feeling having so many people to share in the special day!

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  • Alyssa
    Beginner February 2020
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    I would have to grande in order to not exclude a lot of people. Intimate sounds like me more though!

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  • Johanna
    Dedicated December 2018
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    Intimate! But not toooo intimate. We want to party with all our friends, but not everyone we’ve ever met.
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  • Maria
    Super October 2019
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    Grande! 350-400 guests and I don't think we will have a problem being able to say hi to everyone while still enjoying the celebration. Smiley smile 75% of guests will be immediate family, grandparents, aunts/uncles, and 1st cousins & their spouses and children.

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  • Melda
    Just Said Yes June 2019
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    I prefer small and intimate the bride and groom or couple can enjoy and remember.

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  • Ginsteeca
    Expert June 2019
    Ginsteeca ·
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    Ours will be intimate. We're only inviting about 50 people, including us.

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  • Jayla
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    That's going to be so nice!!

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  • Jayla
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    Larger weddings are fun!! It's nice when you have a big family and can invite a good majority to celebrate with you!

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  • Erika
    Expert April 2019
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    Grande unfortunately. This has been my biggest burden lol

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  • HayMrsO
    Master October 2018
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    Very intimate. 38 people....it was perfection.

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  • Katie
    Just Said Yes December 2019
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    Intimate ❤
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  • Taylor
    Devoted May 2019
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    Intimate! We are having about 55-60 people and we are looking forward to it!

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  • Jerae
    Beginner October 2020
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    I would say somewhere in the middle.
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