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Jayla
Champion October 2025

Style Showdown: Grande or Intimate?

Jayla, on December 4, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Planning 166

Are you supersizing your wedding with a large guest list? Or are you keeping it small and intimate? Grande? Photo by The Nichols Studio in Austin, TX Or Intimate? Photo by Webinet Photography in Rocklin, CA Next Question: Greenery or Flowers? Back to the Beginning: Style Showdown!

Are you supersizing your wedding with a large guest list? Or are you keeping it small and intimate?

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Photo by The Nichols Studio in Austin, TX

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Photo by Webinet Photography in Rocklin, CA


Next Question: Greenery or Flowers?

Back to the Beginning: Style Showdown!

166 Comments

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    Savvy July 2019
    Hannah ·
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    I wanted a much smaller guest list but my fiance has a large and very traditional family where they invite EVERY cousin uncle, aunt, distant relative. So we are at 200 invited and hopefully 180 or less by the wedding...not what I wanted originally but I'm working with it as best I can. It did inflate our budget a bit though which was annoying.
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  • futurmrslowe
    Super December 2018
    futurmrslowe ·
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    We had 110, which I felt was pretty intimate and I was able to greet or chat with everyone. In reality it’s probably in the middle.
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  • Alexandra
    VIP June 2019
    Alexandra ·
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    Grand - we're inviting 225 people with the hopes to have about 200 guests attend. I would have loved a more intimate wedding but my fiancé's family is massive!

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  • ChefKait
    Devoted December 2019
    ChefKait ·
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    Definitely intimate for me, however I am looking forward to a few weddings I'm attending over the next year that will be grande!

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  • Ashley
    Just Said Yes February 2020
    Ashley ·
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    I enjoy Intimate more. I really just want the people who mean the most to me to enjoy our special day with us.

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  • Just Said Yes November 2019
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    Intimate. We will be having less than 100 guest.
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    Savvy April 2024
    Sophia ·
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    Intimate for sure!
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  • Damilola
    Just Said Yes July 2020
    Damilola ·
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    Intimate for sure!!!
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  • Kareta
    Dedicated September 2019
    Kareta ·
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    I’m going with the intimate wedding that’s why I picked Florida instead of my hometown I want the people there that really love and know me.
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  • Jayla
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    Jayla ·
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    That is so true and exactly how your special day should be!

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  • Jayla
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    Jayla ·
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    Exactly!! How many people are you inviting?

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  • Ashley
    Just Said Yes February 2020
    Ashley ·
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    It keeps going back and forth. I want to just invite our immediate family and friends which is about 80 people. My fiancé wants to invite everyone! lol About 145 people. We are still ironing out the details.... Smiley xd

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  • Gabrielle
    Beginner June 2021
    Gabrielle ·
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    Grande because we have a lot of friends and family we want to invite.
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    Just Said Yes December 2020
    Desta ·
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    Depends on the weather
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  • B
    Just Said Yes September 2019
    Brandi ·
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    GRAND ALL THE WAY... I WANNA SHARE MY HAPPINESS WITH THE WORLD
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    Just Said Yes April 2020
    Fritza ·
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    Intimate is more relaxing for me, less stress, just do something nice and simple

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  • Kanita
    Just Said Yes June 2021
    Kanita ·
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    Intimate. If you haven’t met my future husband or I haven’t seen or talked to you in over a year its a no from me.
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  • Christine
    Just Said Yes October 2021
    Christine ·
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    In the middle
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  • Tacara
    Savvy August 2019
    Tacara ·
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    Intimate. I love how the moment is captured and the time that is spent

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    Just Said Yes February 2021
    Amber ·
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    Intimate! Smiley smile

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