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Jayla
Champion October 2025

Style Showdown: Over-the-Top or Understated?

Jayla, on December 4, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Style and Décor 126

Which wedding style do you prefer? All things glitz, glam, and over-the-top? Or classic, subtle, and understated? Which decor style gets your vote? Over-the-top? Photo from Sylvia Weinstock Cakes in New York, NY Or Understated? Photo from Skyla Brooke Weddings and Events in Scottsdale, AZ Next...

Which wedding style do you prefer? All things glitz, glam, and over-the-top? Or classic, subtle, and understated? Which decor style gets your vote?

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Photo from Sylvia Weinstock Cakes in New York, NY

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Photo from Skyla Brooke Weddings and Events in Scottsdale, AZ


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126 Comments

  • J
    Beginner August 2021
    Jacob ·
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    Understated
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  • Lacy
    Super December 2018
    Lacy ·
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    Understated is so elegant and lovely! Also, I wouldn't want the decor to take away from the beauty of the venue.
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  • AlmostAMurphy
    Devoted November 2018
    AlmostAMurphy ·
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    I prefer classic, subtle, and understated. ❤️
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  • Yolanda
    Dedicated July 2021
    Yolanda ·
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    Understated, minima
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  • Rhiannon
    Savvy October 2020
    Rhiannon ·
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    Most definitely understated
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  • Amanda
    Expert October 2019
    Amanda ·
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    Definitely understated.
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  • Natalie
    Beginner October 2018
    Natalie ·
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    Understated but attention to details and show some character.

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  • D
    Just Said Yes November 2020
    Davevinea ·
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    Love the understated
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  • Jayla
    Champion October 2025
    Jayla ·
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    Good point!! Having a venue with a little charm helps as well!

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  • Jayla
    Champion October 2025
    Jayla ·
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    Me too!!! I really like the minimal look!

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  • Johanna
    Dedicated December 2018
    Johanna ·
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    Understated and classy. We’ve got bold colors and lots of decor, but no glitz and glam. It’s all about editing!
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  • J
    Savvy May 2019
    Jane ·
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    I like both! Can’t choose
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  • Melda
    Just Said Yes June 2019
    Melda ·
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    Simple with a twist!

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  • Melda
    Just Said Yes June 2019
    Melda ·
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    Simple and Elegance


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  • Ginsteeca
    Expert June 2019
    Ginsteeca ·
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    My personal style is more understated, but I am always in awe over the over the top amazing decor some brides have.

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  • Jayla
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    Jayla ·
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    Yes!! I have seen some gorgeous over the top decor!!!

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  • Jayla
    Champion October 2025
    Jayla ·
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    Are you still trying to figure out the look of your wedding? A blend of both would be gorgeous!!

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  • M
    Super November 2019
    Melissa ·
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    This is a tricky one. Over the top can come off as guady if theres waaaay too much. But overall for a wedding, I do like over the top if it's done right.
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  • Erika
    Expert April 2019
    Erika ·
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    Classic. Our venue is so breathtaking by itself. I don't need to do much.

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  • Katie
    Just Said Yes December 2019
    Katie ·
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    If my budget allowed it I would moat definitely be over-the-top and then some!
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