We are getting married in September. My fiance is in the middle of a 2 month layoff that ends September 5th. He has told me that he would like his bachlor party to be during his layoff (he works 3rd shift so normally he is up all night and sleeps during the day.....since hes on layoff he is on a "normal" sleep schedule). What he wants for the bachlor party is pretty low key.....a bunch of his friends over at our house, pizza, drinking, drinking games/card games; pretty easy to plan. Heres the problem. His best man is dragging his feet about planning (and communicating in general..cant even give me a time of when he will be free for the rehearsal). I know he has alot on his plate right now....new job...selling his house and moving his family 3 hours away (is it that hard to respond to a text though even if its Im not sure what will be required of me from my new job..)
Soooo my fiance and I thinking leave him as best man but ask one of the other groomsmen to plan the bachlor party. This groomsman has pretty much offered already and asked questions about what is wanted. Both my fiance and I have already had private very polite discussions with the best man and made no progress. What do you guys think?