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Alyssa
Dedicated July 2021

Summer 2020 Brides/covid 19

Alyssa, on April 5, 2020 at 9:00 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 10
Hi friends!!


My fiancé and I have absolutely no plans to cancel or postpone our July 11th wedding unless we absolutely have to. We are from Philadelphia, but getting married in Sanibel, FL and expecting ~50 guests. Our day-of-coordinator at our venue said they aren’t postponing June/July 2020 weddings at the moment anyway, but I wanted to hear other summer brides’ thoughts?? We are so excited for our day, but I’m feeling a lot of stress not knowing how July is going to look. What are your plans?

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Latest activity by Jennifer, on April 7, 2020 at 2:03 PM
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    Beginner July 2020
    Ariel ·
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    I don't have much advice, but it may be comforting for me to say that you are not alone in feeling this stress! Our date is also July 11th, and we are getting married in Arkansas. We are using our church, but we are expecting around 150 people to attend. I have been so stressed about this whole ordeal, but we've have decided to continue as planned and re-assess on May 1st. As long as things are not extending much further then, we are going to continue as planned, order our invitations, and send them out. However, we do have a backup plan in mind, which I would suggest making - just in case. Our back up is to have a small ceremony with just parents and wedding party outdoors at his father's house, which we would both be fine with. We do not have the option to postpone, nor do we want to. Each couple is different, though, so you want to be sure you are happy with whatever Plan B you must have. Hopefully, none of this will be an issue, but I would rather hope for the best and plan for the worst instead of being stuck last minute making changes. As of right now, though, we are going forward with wedding planning as normal for the original wedding we have been planning.

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  • Alisha
    Devoted August 2020
    Alisha ·
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    I'm a summer bride postponing until next summer just to be safe. Even if things look better by the summer its going to be a trial and error for a while and I don't want my loved ones to get in the middle of that so we decided to be safe rather than sorry. I just posted a discussion about the pros to postponing in case you have to make that choice❤
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    Just Said Yes June 2020
    Shelby ·
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    Girl I feel your stress! I'm getting married on June 20. We are gonna get married on this day regardless of anything but we will postpone our reception if we have too. I'm wishing you the best of luck and hope all this crud is long gone by then.
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  • Kasyah
    Devoted July 2020
    Kasyah ·
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    We pushed our date from March until end of July. Sadly it's a waiting game at this point. We will reassess come June 1st. I see most people are saying May but I feel like that's a tad too soon. Def have a backup plan and check with your venue now since they most likely have been having brides like myself reschedule further out into the year. Here's wishing us both luck and good health!
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  • Kenisha
    Beginner April 2020
    Kenisha ·
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    I got married yesterday the 4th of April 2020. I am in Jamaica and though our cases are not as high as other countries we still have a banned on public gatherings of no more than 10 people. So I went ahead and did my wedding with just parents, witness. Pastor and camera crew and we did an online live wedding. So many people got to watch and share that beautiful moment with us. We pre recorded every tribute and played them in the background. It was beautiful and lovely and it was nice getting married despite of everything going on. What was important to us was getting married, that was priority and that’s what marriage really is. Don’t allow these currents circumstances to stop you. If u can get married even if it’s private do it. You can always celebrate later with family and friends.
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  • MeetTheRobinsons
    Devoted June 2020
    MeetTheRobinsons ·
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    We’ve rescheduled once and now we’re set for June 9th. I can’t even fathom the thought of having the thought to reschedule again. I pray we’re though these tough times and the healing began throughout the land.
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  • MeetTheRobinsons
    Devoted June 2020
    MeetTheRobinsons ·
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    Congratulations Kenisha! I’m happy for you and your husband our plan b was similar but the county we were getting married in is now going into their 6th week of shut down. Great idea to film and stream we may need to look into; thank you for sharing 🎊🎁
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  • Brittany
    Savvy July 2020
    Brittany ·
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    I'm July 11th also. At this point, my fiancé and I feel that it's too soon to make any changes. We'll wait til at least May 1st and reassess from there.
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    Devoted August 2020
    Tina ·
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    I’m August 8th I’m not sure what’s going to happen been stressing over it. Hopefully this goes away soon my family and friends we are all stressed. I just hate to think about moving it. The date meant a lot to us. We just waiting to see.
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  • Jennifer
    Dedicated January 2021
    Jennifer ·
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    We are July 17th! Waiting till about Mid-May to start making decision whether we need to postpone or not. I went ahead and reached out to my venue just to see what their thoughts were. We live in Florida and are having a yacht wedding with 50 people attending in St. Petersburg. My biggest concern is that 99% of my guests, including immediate family, are flying from either CA, VA, or IN. We will not be having anyone over the age of 56 at the wedding due to my grandparents health already, regardless of COVID-19. But my venue said that we could postpone and pick a date. I told them I didn't want to jump the gun yet, and they said that I can place my name on another date as backup until someone else is interested and then at that point I will have to make the hard decision and stick with my original date or move to the new date. Our backup date is November 1st, 2020, not my fav, considering everything that I have bought and done with this wedding has our original date of July 17th. It would cost hundreds of dollars to replace everything with a new date! Praying hard and trying to stay positive and keeping the faith!

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