Okay, it's crunch time and I still have loads to do! We are having a wedding on Cape Cod (at 5pm) and I am having trouble figuring out what to put on the tables. It's a lobster bake so I want to keep things casual, but it's also at night so I need some balance. It's a buffet and the caterer provides heavy duty, disposable, plates, napkins and utensils but that leaves me with bare tables.
Advice on centerpieces for this type of wedding? I want something pretty but I also think I should just have silver buckets in the center of each table for shells.
The caterers will bus the table but we do not have anyone that will go around and refill the water cups. Do I still keep water cups at each table and just have a family member fill them with ice and water right before the ceremony? Do I buy 130 glasses for that or just have a drink station with clear plastic cups by the buffet?
Should I buy linen napkins and maybe heavy duty "silver" plasticware? Any advice is much appreciated!