Anyone else getting burnt out on either word? It’s like for one day you have to be something you’re not otherwise you’re “tacky”. Look I’ve drank my wine out of a coffee cup before, I know I’m not normally this classy, sophisticated woman. Everyone wants a good wedding with good food and comfort for their guests and to not look like a hot sack of garbage on their big day, that’s a great expectation!
It just feels like all I hear anymore is “elegant”, you want your day to be elegant. I’ve heard guests say it, I’ve heard vendors say it. The closer my day draws near, the more I worry about it, like which one does my wedding lean towards? It’s not necessary what other people think, it’s what I’ll think and feel. It feels like the wedding industry is warping my brain a bit.
What do those words mean to you? How have they affected your wedding planning?