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Expert July 2014

Taking apart bouquets?

MelanieM, on July 24, 2014 at 2:58 PM Posted in Do It Yourself 0 13

I'm having a bridezilla moment. My parents went to pick up the flowers for the wedding today as our florist is near my parents while I am 16 hours away. The flowers themselves are nice but there was one certain way that I didn’t want the bouquets, I even went through all the books and found a picture to show the lady exactly how I didn’t want them and she was like no no I won’t do them like that. and they are all done exactly like it.

The bouquets are just baby's breath and fake roses and I'm wondering how hard it would be to sort of remake them. Right now the roses are bunched together in the middle of the baby's breath but I wanted them spread out. I know it doesn't seem like a big deal but I'm upset because I made a point of saying that I really didn't like that style.

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Latest activity by Rachel DellaPorte, on July 25, 2014 at 5:29 AM
  • SandM
    VIP August 2014
    SandM ·
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    Can your parents take them back to the florist and have her fix them? Otherwise you need to call her and ask her how to fix them. It was her mistake, give her a chance to make it right before you explore other options.

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  • M
    Expert July 2014
    MelanieM ·
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    They have already left, our venue is a 6 hour drive and they are already on their way. I was hoping to see pictures of the flowers before they left the flower shop but I didn't.

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  • M
    Expert July 2014
    MelanieM ·
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    #1 is what I wanted and what I showed her

    #2 & #3 are like what I showed her that I didn't want and I got.




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  • L
    Master February 2015
    LetItSnow ·
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    You mostly pay a florist for the labor part of a bouquet. If you didn't get what you want, have your parents take them back and insist on a re-do. Otherwise it would have been cheaper to just go to the grocery store and assemble them yourself in the first place.

    To your question, not it's not that hard to reassemble the bouquets. Just make sure to handle them gently so you don't bruise the flowers.

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  • SandM
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    SandM ·
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    Then I would call her, she should tell you or your parents how to fix them since it was her mistake. If not, is there a florist nearby your venue you can take them to?

    ETA: You might even want to ask for some of your money back too.

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  • Mrs. Ames
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    Mrs. Ames ·
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    I would definitely call the florist ASAP. If your parents can get back there, they should. You basically pay a florist to arrange the flowers..

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    Kati ·
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    I would call her as well, you made a point to say this is NOT what I want. You hired AND PAID her to do a job, she didn't give you what you asked for.

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  • DisneyNut
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    I think I would have to try it at least. I am sorry you are dealing with this right now.

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  • OregonEmily
    Master August 2014
    OregonEmily ·
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    I can totally see why you aren't happy. I much prefer the way you asked for them to be done over how she did them.

    Have your parents take them back!

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    MelanieM ·
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    Thank you everyone for your advice and thank you Miss to Mrs for telling me how to fix them.

    My parents couldn't go back as they were already a ways away when the pictures finally came through and have quite a drive ahead of them with truck and trailer.

    I will call the florist, I'm upset because she is the sweetest lady and makes beautiful arrangements for so many weddings in our town. She did a lot of work finding the artificial roses for us and gave us a really decent price. She runs a very busy floral shop and I'm just sad that this happened, she's not somebody I'd like to get upset with.

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  • The New Mrs. Pool
    Devoted August 2014
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    Yeah, I like #1 too. Sorry that's happened to you.

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  • AndixLyn
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    AndixLyn ·
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    Call the florist, either she fixes them or you get a discount. if they are fake flowers she may have one connected bunch in the center and you may have to cut them to separate them.

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  • Rachel DellaPorte
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    She may be a lovely lady, but what you asked for (paid for) is not what you received. Those are two distinctly different designs. I would, at the very least, call her and ask her if she misunderstood you.

    The good news is that the bouquet you want isn't that challenging to put together. The fact that you have silk roses makes it better. That means you can handle them as much as you want without damaging them. Start by taking one bouquet apart and then you'll know whether or not you like the way you've rearranged them. If you don't, you can always put them back the way they were.

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