I previously gave someone a Save the Date to my wedding, but I have since decided that I don't want her there. To complicate things, I work with her, so it's not like I'm not going to bump into her. We talk on a daily basis.
She's just proven herself to be incredibly judgmental and I don't want her bad vibes there at our intimate event. She just judged our wedding when I mentioned that we would like to honor my fiance's late mother in some way at our ceremony. That was the biggest red flag I've ever seen. I do NOT want her there.
For another example, she's openly judging the way one of our coworkers is GRIEVING. It's just egregious and basically the final straw for me.
What do I say? Kind of thinking with going with "We've decided to have a smaller, more intimate ceremony..." but idk.
Any help is appreciated!