taking time for yourself during the reception- eating alone?

It's actually a tradition in Jewish weddings to have 15 or 20 minutes alone before joining the guests at the reception. However, you might want to do that during the cocktail hour rather than during the main reception, since the meal is typically a social activity.

I think it would be nicer if you had your alone time earlier as 2d bride suggested. That way you are sharing your first meal together with your guests

Agree with the others.

I agree with 2d and leonie. FH and I are having such a small wedding. Literally 20 people. We will be on the beach, and will have just immediate family there. I do plan on taking a stroll down the beach after family pictures but before the reception, just him and I.

Post-wedding brides have often said take a good 15-20 min right after the ceremony to let the "just married" moment sink in. Just you & your groom. Doing a private dinner while leaving your guests, I would NOT suggest. They are there to celebrate your marriage, the reception & dinner is part of it. If you're having a honeymoon, you will have plenty of private dinners. Deliberately make time to eat, starting with bkfst. If you're doing buffet, getting your food first, you should be able to eat atleast half of your food by the time guests want you to socialize.