I’ll just start by saying…. Sorry for the long post!
For the better part of 2 years I’ve been trying to make friends with my FH’s best friends fiancé (I hope that made sense 😂)
It all started with FH’s best friend telling him his girlfriend at the time needed some friends and lucky me! So did I! Win win right? We established some plans and it was a bit of a grind to get everyone together (should’ve been my first clue lol.)I really liked the girl I thought she was super nice and cool! From there I would invite her or them to different things and they would often flake. I still tried to get to know her and invite her to fun things or invite them both to date nights because I believe in second chances and I try to be understanding as they have a child. After the last big flake out my feelings were really hurt because I invited them over for a double date night to ask if they wanted to attend as our witnesses to our elopement style wedding. I gave about 3 weeks notice and they ghosted the week of… FH finally got ahold of his friend and they yanked us around all day. “Totally coming” to “can’t find a babysitter” and back and forth. Despite this we decided to still invite them…. A decision I regret. Recently I decided despite everything I should really try to get to know her and not let my hurt feelings get in the way. (Especially if she was going to be in my wedding!) I reached out to her and started a conversation with no intentions of asking her to go do anything. I simply just wanted to learn more about this almost stranger who always flakes on me.A few messages back and forth then she left me on read days ago and I’m just at this boiling point. Of course I feel stupid because I put myself out there and got my feelings hurt again.And also I’m probably being silly but I seriously don’t want her in my tiny little wedding now. I don’t want to have her in my pictures that I’ll look back on or be around her on my special day. Am I being too sensitive? What’s the best way to uninvite her? We probably want FH’s best friend in the wedding still as they’ve been friends since grade school but it’s just a sticky situation. Any thoughts are welcome and thank you!!!
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