DH and I got married a couple Fridays ago and his father, a Methodist minister, performed the ceremony. This aspect was important to DH, even though I wasn't happy about it (long story). What should have been a sweet wedding moment, father of the groom marrying his oldest son, turned into one of the biggest wedding regrets I have. Even though his father gave us 2 different ceremonies to choose from, approved our ceremony choice, and commented about how much he liked it, the day of he didn't do said ceremony. He created the ceremony he wanted for us, not the one we wanted. It was centered around him and he compared our love to a tsunami (ick). I just want to caution some of you other ladies that may feel obligated to have family or someone close perform your ceremony. If it doesn't feel right there's a reason. I truly believe DH an I would have been happier with an officiant we hadn't personally known marrying us.
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