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Laura2.0
VIP March 2017

The bride's last hurrah!!!

Laura2.0, on August 19, 2016 at 3:36 PM

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So a friend of mine of mine asked me if the bride's last hurrah was a real thing and if I plan to do it, confused I looked at him like wth is that? He then proceeded to tell me he was approached by a bachlorette party at a bar bc he's been selected as a candidate for the bride's last hurrah....

So a friend of mine of mine asked me if the bride's last hurrah was a real thing and if I plan to do it, confused I looked at him like wth is that? He then proceeded to tell me he was approached by a bachlorette party at a bar bc he's been selected as a candidate for the bride's last hurrah. Basically the bride wanted him to be the last person she hooks up with before getting married. He declined but the bride along with her friends spent like 20 min trying to convince him its ok and even bought him drinks. I told him this is absolutely something I'm not planning on and that I don't think it's a real thing. But I had to share with my WW peeps and find out for sure bc I've learned about a lot on hear. Some great some bad and some just plain tacky.

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  • Laura2.0
    VIP March 2017
    Laura2.0 ·
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    I'd love to see what the marriage is like.

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  • BeachBride
    VIP June 2017
    BeachBride ·
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    So disgusting. What a way to start a life with someone.

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  • StokedToBeASaucier
    Master September 2017
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    Unfortunately I'm not surprised. People are gross.

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  • FFW
    Master August 2016
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    No bueno. I wonder how true this is (his story). Not saying he made it up but to what extent did this all happen. I've heard DH's friends tell stories about epic hook ups (celebrities, rando places with rando women) and then I get what really happened from DH and lets just say the guys said a lot more to make themselves look better. Once heard a story about a threesome with this guy and "two goregous" "ridiculously hott" women. Yeah, saw a picture of the two and one was big and sloppy and the other looked like a drug addict.

    ETA: then

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  • FutureMrs.Dyson
    Super December 2016
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    That's disgusting and wrong on too many levels to type out.

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  • Mrs. Sasswood
    Master October 2016
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    If you need a last hurrah, you need to not get married. Gross.

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  • BicycleBuiltForTwo
    Master September 2016
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    This is wrong IF they aren't in an open relationship. IF she was in an open relationship, this isn't cheating. People in open relationships CAN get married (and we have a few on the forums). I don't know if that's the case here, but it is a possibility.

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  • Alicia
    Super November 2016
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    That's ratchet!

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  • MizzzCara
    Master June 2017
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    I 'love' my fiancé but am going to hook up with someone. Nah. I'm good.

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  • Sarahmouche
    Master January 2017
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    But if you're in an open relationship, would it technically be a "last" hurrah? Is hurrah even the right term?

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  • K
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    Korena ·
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    If she is hooking up with a guy as a "last hurrah" chances are its not really her last hurrah and shes a slut...i feel bad for the poor schmuck she is marrying

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  • HickChick418
    VIP May 2017
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    Great way to start off your marriage with an STD or a baby that doesn't belong to your husband....ewwww

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  • marryingmyknight
    Super April 2017
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    That is absolutely cheating. And so very disrespectful to her relationship! I feel bad for her FH...

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  • [anonymous]
    Master October 2017
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    This is gross.

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  • Bee
    Master April 2017
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    Well that's gross. I'm not comfortable doing anything at my bachelorette that I wouldn't do when married (and def not something I would hide from FH) so when I hear things like 'last night of freedom' or 'last night of being single' it erks me. I haven't been single since I started dating my FH and my last hurrah will be with him. It's gross that people think the bachelorette is a free pass.

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  • Jessica450
    Expert September 2016
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    Wow!!! she's a winner!

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  • JaimeLeigh
    Super November 2016
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    I posted about a "friend" of mine doing this. I was her MOH and she demanded I find her her last hook up at her Bach. Thanks to the advice of the amazing people on WW, I had the balls to stand up to her, told her fiancé and dropped out of the wedding which was 2 weekends ago.

    This is not normal. As @Sass said, if you need to do this, you need to not get married.

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  • mimitrue
    Master January 2016
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    Any ship like that should have sailed the second she accepted the marriage proposal.

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  • Megan&Jess
    Devoted March 2017
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    Seriously?? I never understood why people decide that just because they're about to get married they have to act like they're single at their bachelorette party. If she's about to get married shes supposed to not even have a small part of herself want to sleep with someone else. I couldn't even imagine being with someone else. That's awful

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  • Laura2.0
    VIP March 2017
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    JaimeLeigh I would drop out too. She put you in an awkward and awful position.

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