I know this has come up many times, but I can't help myself from commenting. I was shocked at how rigid ideas on etiquette were on the Knot forum. Any ceremony/reception after a legal courthouse wedding was a "pretty princess day", matching bridesmaid gifts and robes were a capital offense, no exceptions on invitation timeline, anyone who disagreed got shouted down and memed FAST. Wowza. Things get heated on here but at least most of us are willing to see both sides of the argument. Thanks for being you, wedding wire!