The venting bride

Sexist term. My man was definitely a groomzilla and we still talking about it in counseling 1 year later (so be forewarned)... As long as you are within standard etiquette and respecting people, you can be specific in your planning.

Yeah I'm really over the whole "bridezilla" thing. I was reading through a reddit thread the other day about how criticism around caring about your wedding is inherently sexist because it's a thing women traditionally care about. Women are told their whole lives that they need to do this or that to catch a man, that being a wife is so important, blah blah blah, but then when it comes time to finally meet society's golden standard (I hope the sarcasm there is audible lol), women are again made out to be awful for wanting to have a nice day.