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Hgerian
Savvy September 2019

The “worse” part of “for better or for worse”...

Hgerian, on December 1, 2019 at 8:42 AM Posted in Married Life 0 18

We got married September 30th of this year... it was perfect ❤️

Just 2 1/2 weeks later we were in a serious car accident which left me with a shattered right heal, 2 breaks and a bad sprain in my right hand (I’m right handed, by the way), and lots of bruising and cuts. The last 6+ weeks have been some of the very hardest I’ve ever experienced! I’m told that this will be a long healing process - especially when/if surgery is required (we won’t know until after 3 months in the cast).

My husband has been great (he escaped with just burns from the airbag and some soreness, thank goodness)! This must be the “worse” part, but the “better” part of the whole nightmare of the situation, has absolutely been my sweet husband’s unconditional love, support, and care. He has truly stepped up and took over all of the household “chores”, not to mention, all he has to do to help me Smiley smile This has been such a tough time for me. I’m used to go, go, going. Having to, pretty much, totally stop has been depressing, however, I can’t think of anyone else I’d rather go through the “worse” part than my new husband ❤️

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Latest activity by Hgerian, on January 25, 2020 at 5:24 PM
  • vttn
    Dedicated May 2020
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    So sorry to hear that you guys were in an accident shortly after the wedding! But I’m happy that you have an amazing husband taking care of you. Wish you both speedy recovery!
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  • Kristen
    Master November 2020
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    I am so sorry for this situation and even though you are in the recovery phase I am glad you both are ok. Sadly there are going to be stressful moments in a marriage but how you treat each other can make or break the marriage. I am so glad to hear he has been a great amount of support for you. Prayers everything gets better soon.

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  • Cristina
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    Sorry to read your story, sending prayers for healing and patience. God Bless your hubby for being their as he vowed.
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  • Julia
    Dedicated March 2021
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    Sorry to hear about your accident, but it sounds like you chose the right man to spend your life with! Glad he's been there for you- hope you recover quickly!
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  • Hgerian
    Savvy September 2019
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    Thank you 😊
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  • Hgerian
    Savvy September 2019
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    Thanks, he is definitely staying true to his vows ❤️
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  • Hgerian
    Savvy September 2019
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    Thank you!
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  • Cristina
    Dedicated December 2021
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    Remember you have forever! Once you heal you’ll have your marriage and life to celebrate. You have a community full of sweet couples here to help support the process with kind words as well! ♥️
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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
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    I’m sorry to hear what you’re going through but you are lucky to have someone like your husband to be there for you. That’s what this partnership is all about. We got married in May and 6 weeks ago I fractured my knee and badly sprained my MCL and have been no weight bearing in a brace since then. Like you my husband has to do everything and I feel bad but he has done it with a smile every day and I feel so lucky. It sounds like your injuries are going to take a while but remember that you would do the same thing for him. That’s what true love is. Stay positive! I hope you heal quickly!
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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
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    Your marriage is a wonderful example of sticking together through thick and thin! I hope you feel much better very soon Smiley heart

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  • Stephanie
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    I am sorry to hear about this. You are blessed to have such a loving husband. I pray that you recover well and rapidly. Just stay positive.

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  • Catherine
    VIP November 2019
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    I'm so sorry to hear of the accident!!! i'm so happy tho he is there to love and support you. sending prayers and well wishes to you!

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  • Traci
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    I am praying for a quick and healthy recovery. I am sorry that happened!!!!!
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  • Hgerian
    Savvy September 2019
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    Very true! Thank you 😊
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  • Hgerian
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    Thank you!
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  • Hgerian
    Savvy September 2019
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    Thank you 😊 It’s Hard to do some days, for sure!
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  • Hgerian
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    Thank you 😊
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  • Hgerian
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    Thank you! I sure appreciate the prayers 😊
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