This ever happened to you

When you received the invitation to their wedding, was his name on it? Or was it just addressed to you? Or You + Guest?

I actually had the opposite happen - my place setting had my husband-to-be's last name on it, even though a. we were not yet engaged at the time, and b. we had provided my name when we rsvped. I did think it was a bit weird, and even weirder, they spelt the last name wrong on both cards, when the rest of my fiance's family's names were spelt correctly, and they were all seated together, while we were randomly seated away from them.

All in all I thought it was very strange, but loads of people are a LOT less organised than my partner and I, and can't keep track of small details like that and probably just didn't update their spreadsheet/whatever document they were using with the names, and then couldn't find what last name we'd said when the time came. For our wedding, we'd probably reach out and check to be sure, but not everyone would bother or end up having the time to do that, I guess.

Unless they were really unwelcoming and rude, I'd probably just let it go.

Not exactly the same situation, but my aunt had a big 50th birthday party last month and the invitation was addressed only to me, with not even a mention of a +1 or guest. My whole family knows my fiancé, we've been dating for 5 years and engaged for almost 1 yr. He's spent the last 2 Christmases with my family at this same aunts house. I thought it was rude that he wasn't even mentioned on the invite.

This happened to my cousin when his gf's name wasn't listed on the table seating when we were in Hawaii for our other cousin's wedding. Honestly, I have no idea who to believe or what really happened because my cousin (the bride) said that she did include her on the invite. Now my cousin and his gf have been on and off for a few years now. Therefore, he could have very much not included her on the RSVP at the time if they were broken up. Another scenario could've been the person who created the seating chart may have also forgotten to write her name down. But it was all fixed.

I'm sure they didn't mean to do it to hurt you guys though as mishaps l like this do happen.