**This is not supposed to be a "feel sorry for me" post. It happened, it was sad, but we are dealing with it. This is just a word of warning to others, because we had no idea the warning signs and it may help someone else.**
When I was 7 weeks pregnant, I started having shooting shoulder pain, and anal pressure. It felt like a really bad knot in my shoulder and I was horribly constipated. This went on for about 3 days. I had no cramping in my abdomen or bleeding what so ever. It never once occurred to me that something was wrong with the baby. None of the signs were there. I had morning sickness, and everything. Half way through the third day, I was feeling sick so I laid down (I work from home). My cat started freaking out trying to get me up, which is not like her at all. When I did, everything went black for a few seconds. So I called my husband and we went to the ER. I had an ectopic pregnancy that had ruptured. The pain in my shoulder and anal pressure were due to..
