There have been a few hot topics recently with my friends and I'm dying to know ya'll's opinions on them!
1. I have no desire in my heart to ask my fiancé about his "body count". I think that what he did before me isn't really my business. Some of my friends have said that they have gotten into serious fights with their S.O over this body count list from years prior to them even meeting. I think this is so strange and totally an invasion of privacy, and kind of immature to ask to begin with. Is this a normal discussion to have with your S.O?
2. A few friends have said that their husbands or boyfriends don't allow them to wear anything sexy. For example, my bachelorette is next weekend and most of us have ordered super cute and fun outfits - some are body con dresses or bodysuits, and workout sets for one of the activities we are doing. One of my bridesmaids was appalled and said her husband would never let her dress that way. My fiancé helped me pick out my outfits and loved them when I tried them on for him when they came in - he hyped me up and thought I looked great. For reference, I'm wearing white pants with a lace bodysuit, a very chic mini dress, and a workout set with leggings and a sports bra. I think my FH is extremely attractive and want him to look his best, and he feels the same way.
I don't feel like I need to be told what to wear. I consider myself a pretty good judge of what's an appropriate way to present myself without disrespecting myself or my relationship. I definitely submit to and serve my FH in likely every way, but I just feel like this would be a lot.
What are ya'll's thoughts on this?!
