Thoughts??

Privacy from..? Are you one of those kinds of people who has to go through all his things because of an insecurity or something? If not, what does he need privacy from exactly?

Red flag. I wouldn't be able to be with someone who has 'secrets' like that, specially if it's going down a path of marriage. I've been in way too many relationships that were insecure or jealous and, obviously, they didn't work out. Only reason you would ever need a second phone is.. probably for work.. and even then, it shouldn't even be a secret. If you can't be honest and trust your significant other, you really shouldn't get married. It probably won't last. Not only that, it's so much money to divorce if it ever comes down to that.. it's not just something you can say 'alright, i'm out of here' and leave it at that. He needs to change, or you both need to change, not sure what the situation is but.. work it out or leave it.

I actually have a friend who is in a relationship with a guy who hides all his messages from her. She snooped one day to find that he was Snapchatting all these women.. the kinds you just find on the internet and they do things for money, whatever. She just cannot find it in her heart to get him out of her life and keeps giving him second chances. Now, he just hides all his crap better and she lives every day unsure and insecure about him and what he's doing. Not the kind of life anyone should live, everyone deserves to be happy and secure.

Good luck!

Sweetie, from experience TRUST YOUR GUT!! MY ex did the same things, he WAS doing things that he DEFINITLY should not be doing. He had no reason for a 2nd cell phone, nor to start keeping secrets like that. Your partner should be able to be honest and open with you, and vice versa. You should never be made to feel that something is your fault--this is mental abusive behavior. my soon to be mother in law is the same, guilts you to feel bad even though it is her insecurities that she portrays on to others. This person is not being proactive or healthy for you. Dont do as I did and marry someone when your GUT says NO!! I was then trapped with no vehicle or way to escape!! I had to find an outside source to get me free and away!!

Girl I dont know your full situation, but talk with people you trust and make a plan to leave that toxic situation, sooner than later!

I love this.... Just in case he is ACTUALLY a secret agent.... lol! A dear friend was married to an undercover DEA agent, she didn't know details, but knew enough to know that if they were out and he asked if she "needed to go to the ladies room," she needed to move ASAP as some serious stuff was about to hit the fan. OP, I'd stake my life that your good-for-nothing boyfriend is NOT a secret agent, which only leaves secret lover/family or drug dealer, so get out and don't ever look back! Good luck!