So, I have a close friend of mine who is getting married at the end of this month. She is having a very, very small, casual wedding, and no wedding attendants. I just realized today that probably nobody has offered to throw her a wedding-related event yet, and I would like to do that for her! The issues are 1.) there is limited time to put this together and 2.) I have limited money for hosting an event because I am poor from my own wedding.
I will probably invite between 10-15 people, but I have no idea how many will be able to make it on short notice.
The options are:
1.) Go to a local restaurant, rent out a private room (a very small room), but everybody has to pay for their own food. I would buy several appetizers and bottles of wine for everybody to share, but I cannot afford more than that.
2.) Host it at my house and have food delivered and buy lots of alcohol. The only issue with this is that my house doesn't have a lot of space for sitting. When we have parties we all usually go upstairs and lounge in beanbag chairs and on the floor. I'm not sure that is the best environment for a bridal event. (Note, there is enough space for everybody to be comfortable, just not on tables and chairs)
3.) Go to a winery and bring in food, but everybody would need to buy their own "tasting". This is my preferred option, but I'm still contacting places to make sure this will work.
What would you do in this situation? Anybody have any other ideas for good places to host a bridal shower/ bachelorette event that isn't at a restaurant? I was thinking maybe a coffee shop or something, but I'm just not sure.
TIA