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Melissa
Savvy August 2018

Tinder love

Melissa, on March 30, 2018 at 7:04 PM

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Did anyone else meet their FH on Tinder? We did and we keep telling family we met at college because we don't want them to know and think the worst of us. Especially our parents. I'm kind of worried it will get out at the wedding and emarassing stories will ensue. Just looking for some comforting...
Did anyone else meet their FH on Tinder? We did and we keep telling family we met at college because we don't want them to know and think the worst of us. Especially our parents. I'm kind of worried it will get out at the wedding and emarassing stories will ensue. Just looking for some comforting words, honestly.

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  • Mrsp
    Devoted July 2018
    Mrsp ·
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    We didn't meet online but we met in a bar (I always swore I'd never date anyone I met in a bar) but it's part of our story so even though I have some judgemental family members, I decided to embrace it. He's my best friend and the love of my life. It feels wrong to be ashamed of what brought him into my life. It's the first paragraph of our story on our wedding website lol
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  • futuremrsrichardson
    Devoted October 2018
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    We met on ok Cupid and I am so thankful that I found him!
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    Dedicated October 2018
    Elsa ·
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    We met on Plenty of Fish too. Both our families were accepting of meeting someone online. He also got to meet my whole family on our third date/day because we were on a date and I got invited to a family dinner the day after my cousin's wedding. They've loved him since then.
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    Savvy November 2018
    Taylor ·
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    We didn’t tell anyone we met online because we were embarrassed too. But now I wish we had due to lots of questions about where/how we met once we got engaged!
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    Dedicated June 2019
    Nicole ·
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    We met on plenty of fish. At first we didnt say where we met, but eventually we did and there was no problem with it. Our parents realize how it is in the world today. They should see how happy you are.
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  • Marie
    Devoted March 2018
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    I met my husband online. It is the new dating thing now. We are so happy, feel our meeting was divine intervention!
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    Just Said Yes March 2019
    LaQuanah ·
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    My FH and I meet on Facebook; we love our story. There is no shame in online dating.
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  • Meaghan
    Dedicated September 2018
    Meaghan ·
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    We met on tinder. When we tell people we say “we met the good old fashioned way, Tinder”. It lightens the mood about it and reminds people that this really is how people meet now.
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    Just Said Yes November 2018
    Sydney ·
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    I met my fiance online 7 years ago on a kinda sketchy site! Lol ! He moved he from New York, and people love our story 😄
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    Just Said Yes November 2018
    Shawnna ·
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    I met my FH on OkCupid. Don’t keep it a secret how you met.
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  • redheadedfury
    Savvy November 2020
    redheadedfury ·
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    I met my fiancé on POF. Not tinder but still online. 🙂
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    Super February 2019
    Amy ·
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    I met my FH on OkCupid. His mom can now joke with me about how nervous she was at first to hear her son was dating someone "from the internet" and "who knows where that girl has been??" (this was before she met me!).


    Turns out my FMIL are really close and have a great relationship. Even people who may be old fashioned come around pretty quickly once they know you!

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  • Miranda
    Expert February 2019
    Miranda ·
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    My FH and I met on Tinder! We usually just tell people we met "online." People are super quick to judge Tinder, but people get on there for the right reasons too. You and your FH, and me and my FH are proof of that. Smiley smile

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  • Greg
    Beginner July 2018
    Greg ·
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    I mostly used Tinder for hook ups. Cool that you found someone real.

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  • Jasmin
    Dedicated August 2018
    Jasmin ·
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    We met on what’s now called meetme (myyearbook). Like 6-7 years ago. People ask us how did we do it? Cause we spent like a year online talking before meeting in person. He actually thought I was cat fishing him 😂 but we did it and neither of us are catfishes. I think talking online for so long really made us comfortable with each other cause when we first met I knew he was the one. I told my dad first before my mom and he was cool with it. He actually said “how did you score a guy like that? If you guys break up it’s definitely your fault.” Everything is wonderful now. I’d definitely be open with his family and yours makes everything better and stress free. You guys are getting married don’t need any secrets going into a beautiful marriage ❤️
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    Just Said Yes April 2019
    Brittany ·
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    My FOH and I met on Plenty of Fish, and we have always been open about that. Dating is awkward. Especially after college. Online dating sites are efficient and, well, less awkward. We have a beautiful story over the past (almost) 6 years, and I'm in love with all the details.
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    Savvy August 2018
    Angela ·
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    We met on a website for single parents lol. I was pregnant at the time (but I lost my child to complications) and he still wanted to date me even at 3.5 months pregnant. It's been 4 years since and we are each others best friends. Cant imagine being with anyone else. We both won the lottery on this one. My fiance told me "it's the best $40 he's ever spent" lol. We are both honest about it because we think it's cute.
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  • Nemo
    Master August 2018
    Nemo ·
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    FH and I did too! Our families all know the truth, and they don't care. They know the type of people we are and knew that we weren't looking for mindless hookups. Actually, our church did a study and found that more young couples in committed relationships (in our congregation) met on Tinder than any other dating "app."

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  • Sarah
    Dedicated May 2019
    Sarah ·
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    Careful...you have already started to dig a hole. If anyone in your life (siblings, friends) knows that you met on Tinder, it WILL eventually come back to your parents and others you’ve worked hard to hide the info from. If you are mature enough to get married, then you need to be mature enough to tell those closest to you how you met your beloved.
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  • Bride Brain
    Devoted May 2018
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    Same! We met on Tinder. We sat down and said what will we tell our families. He wanted the truth and I wanted a story so I made one up. When it actually came up, I told the truth. A couple seconds of awkwardness but that went away almost instantly. There are people in the world who never find what we did and it doesn't matter how it happened. Lying makes things messy.
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