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Arianna
Devoted September 2021

To include chair or not? Maybe only a couple?

Arianna, on May 11, 2021 at 5:29 PM

Posted in Wedding Ceremony 47

Hey ladies! So long story short my fiancé wants to have chairs for guests to sit at the wedding and I don’t see a point for 15 minutes. My soon to be mother in law suggested maybe half the number of people they say yes to coming (so 80 rsvp but provide only 40 chairs for older guests) I’ve been to...
Hey ladies! So long story short my fiancé wants to have chairs for guests to sit at the wedding and I don’t see a point for 15 minutes. My soon to be mother in law suggested maybe half the number of people they say yes to coming (so 80 rsvp but provide only 40 chairs for older guests) I’ve been to weddings that don’t have chairs at all and I have been to wedding where they were provided. My one vendor also told me not everyone comes to the ceremony anyways and with it strict budget I would like to keep the chairs low in price or not have to worry about them at all. Thanks in advance!!

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  • Krista
    Dedicated April 2020
    Krista ·
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    Do you live in a place with farms? Maybe you could borrow some hay bales or rent from a local farm? I’ve been to a few weddings where we sat on hay bales and some blankets and it worked out! One of the families had some horses so they were going buy them anyway
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  • Richaelyn
    Devoted July 2021
    Richaelyn ·
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    I have a quick suggestion. If you are a member at a church, maybe you could ask the church to borrow some chairs? My church let me borrow a few tables & chairs for my graduation party maybe yours will do the same
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    Savvy June 2021
    Meena ·
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    All of these suggestions to borrow chairs are great ideas. My cousin was married outside at a public gazebo, no seating available. I called the local funeral home, and they loaned us really nice wood folding chairs for the ceremony, free of charge. Other cousins went and picked them up/ set themup/returned them. I don't know if you have that kind of help available, but never hurts to ask.
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  • Sexypoodle
    Master October 2021
    Sexypoodle ·
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    Not having chairs is more common with a small number guests, maybe up to 10. But you have 80! So it’s best to get chairs for everyone and not just half of the guests. Also, guests typically arrive 30 minutes before the ceremony. So essentially, they would be standing for 45 minutes. And when you add in the the fact that weddings often start 5 to 10 minutes late, that becomes almost an hour of standing. However, if you choose to go that route, then you should express somewhere on your invitation or website that your ceremony will be standing only.
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    Lady ·
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    You absolutely need chairs for every single person at your entire event. It's like the bare minimum of hosting. Just because you've attended events without seats doesn't mean its an ok thing to do.

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    VIP July 2017
    Becky ·
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    I'm going to agree with everyone else. You need to have chairs for everyone who RSVPs. I get that you've been to events without them - but they're really necessary.

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    Rockstar August 2023
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    I would say that chairs are always nice to have, especially for short guests and the elderly. If not chairs, maybe you can rent pews or benches. (I don't know if these would be cheaper than chairs).

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