Hi y'all! I am about to lay it down for family drama and opinions are welcomed!
My dad and older brother are both pretty poor characters. My brother moreso than my father. My father is just selfish. My brother told my father that I only talked to him for money and that wasn't the case, so then my dad disowned me for like 6 months and I disowned my brother essentially. A year later I confront my brother and tell him I don't want drama and he is invited to my wedding and he says he hasn't spoken to me because he doesn't speak to people that talk poorly about other people. (playing victim... woohoo!) A few months later I invite him to the wedding which is roughly a year out at this point and he says my venue is an interesting choice and it is nearly impossible for him to attend because of work. I decide he gets no invite and my fiance is on board until my dad spends an hour today guilt tripping me about how I regret it and yada yada and now my fiance thinks I should invite him out of courtesy.
To invite or not to invite? My current stance is.... a wedding isn't a time for a relationship.
