So sticky situation. I'm wondering if I should invite my grandmother to my wedding...
I have basically no relationship with my grandmother (father's mother). She moved to New Mexico shortly after my brother and I were born, the last time my family and I went to visit we were like six years old. The last time she came to visit had to be over ten years now, and she didn't even come to visit us - she came to visit her friend and then was like "oh you can take us out to dinner" but she didn't even talk to us the entire time. My mom sends her birthday cards and Christmas gifts, the last card my grandma sent me was for my high school graduation (again over ten years ago) she wanted to stop sending cards because it was too expensive - but can't pick up the phone and call us or even ask about us when she talks to my mom or dad...
I know she probably wouldn't come if I did invite her... I feel like I should extend the invite because she is my "grandmother" but at the same time my fiancé and I only want people there that we actively have talked to in the last few years and have a close relationship with (we are only having about 75 guests)
Any advice would be appreciated