Backstory. I have a friend who I’ve known for over ten years. I was engaged once before and asked her immediately to be a bridesmaid. Fast forward to now. When picking my ladies I wanted to pick her, but we’re keeping everything minimal and he only choose a Best Man so I decided to keep my girls to 2 and picked two girls for MOH and bridesmaid I’ve gotten a little closer to recently.
Currently. Having an issue with my MOH saying she isn’t sure she can come to the wedding AT ALL for a variety of reasons and hasn’t done any MOH duties since I told her back in Nov - not that I need anything but a text or call to see if I did would’ve been thoughtful. My seething frustration is that one of the two reasons she can’t potentially attend now is she has no money. I get it. What I don’t get are all the spur of the moment out of country trips she’s been taking, most recently to Cuba and now can’t afford to be at my wedding. I even offered to cover the Bach party and her hotel stay to help her out. It’s still too expensive for her. But she “might” be able to. My wedding is in 2 months!!!
Here is my dilemma. With my MOH hot and cold I’ve now been thinking about the friend that would’ve been a second bridesmaid and wonder if it’s too late to invite her to be a bridesmaid (obviously no obligations except for the night before and wedding day, she has kids and I don’t want her to stress over needing to take extra time off). I found a cute card that says : “This Time I’m Serious - Will You be My Bridesmaid” and to go with our camping theme probably something with s’mores that says there is s’mores love to go around, sorry for taking so long, etc.
thoughts?
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