Tossing the Bouquet dreams!

Maybe you're thinking about it too much, I think it's perfectly normal to have dreams about the wedding specially since you're getting close to it.

Are you afraid about the toss? You can skip it if you're not sure about it? I've been to some weddings without it, I'm sure the guests won't miss it that much, a lot of people are skipping it these days.

It's normal stress dreams. Before my wedding, I dreamed that my bowling alley wedding was changed to a hotel ballroom without my approval, all my guests were in some sort of ampitheater howling and heckling me, and I fell down in my (purple?) dress and wept.

The only thing I learned is that a bowling wedding would have been awesome.

Cydney do you have someone in mind that you want to catch the bouquet? Or someone that is bugging you about tossing it their way?

Cydney its your subconscious, you are thinking about it too much. It's normal but try not to think about it. If it was one of the last things you were thinking about your subconsciousness takes over. Its normal!

So Karla and Shannon when does it go away? I tossed and turned all night going over my checklist in my head. Literally I got an hour of sleep last night.

It goes away either after the wedding, or after the point you decide not to give a crap anymore. Your pick.

@Honeymoon ... no, I think I'm more excited about the bouquet toss...probably because for the first time, I'm not on the receiving end! I have always hated being in those crazy group of girls...my BFF's wedding back in July, I caught the bouquet!

@Shannon...LOL! that is HILARIOUS! I think I would've laughed when I woke up if I had dreamed any of that. And a bowling wedding?! Totally awesome!

@MekMek...to be honest, I don't know too many single gals that will be at the wedding. My nieces all 12 and under lol...and a couple girls that are single...but that's it I believe. So no, there isn't someone who I want to catch it or that has been bugging me about it...

Yes, I have the same wedding related dreams. My venue had cobwebs everywhere & chairs were all stacked in the corner, nothing set up. Forgot to get my hair done, no makeup, etc!

@ MekMek - it will probably all go away once the wedding is over! 10 more days of sleepless nights for me!! Then its honeymoon time!!

@Karla...honestly, I don't even thinking about tossing the bouquet...it literally is only coming up in my dreams. Throughout the day, it never comes up.

@Shannon...nice. I choose I don't give a crap. I stopped thinking about my check list a long time ago.

I can't wait to get to the I don't give a crap phase but I still have 200+ days : (

LOL...you'll get there soon enough MekMek.

Did you ever catch the bouquet? If you did, maybe that is part of it.. you caught it so now it will be your turn to throw it?

I have dreams like that too now! At first I didn't have any. The other night I had a dream my hairdresser put my hair in a ponytail and that was it. I somehow loved it, but it got loose. I spent the whole dream trying to fix it and was freaking out that the ponytail didn't look the same haha.

I caught the bouquet at my best friend's wedding back in July.

I've had other wedding nightmares but none that are reoccurring...this one has been continuous ... every day this week.

What is the dream you've been having exactly? I'm curious.

It's been different every time.

Like it's a huge scramble to get all the girls in line and I'm running around trying to find the bouquet to toss. It's really crazy.

And I laugh, because it's a lot like something out of a movie...and I don't have many girls that are single to do that let alone know that would act like that...especially since most of the 'single' girls are 12 and under!