I have 3 groomsmen who two out of 3 live in different states. My problem is...1. i can never get one of them on the phone so i havent been able to discuss the wedding with him at all. #2. None of the guys have gotten measured or looked at suits. And #3... one of them says he gonna be at the wedding but we are unsure if financially he will be able to make the trip out. I really just want to replace them all but its my husband family n he is set on them being in the wedding. What do i do?