True or False: If I could switch up my wedding party today with no consequences, I would!

False! My girls are perfect!

I'd ditch the wedding party altogether. It feels like a lot of unanswered email, drama and worry. I'm trying really hard not to be "that bride" that freaks out or changes the bridal party outfits fifty billion times(which I have no reason too). I'm also trying not to the "that bride" that forces members of the wedding party to sit together instead of sitting with their family. My ladies are low key, but they know how to dress well because they've been to other weddings and graduations and such. Still adding more people in the mix introduces an element of chaos because the more complex something is, like a bridal party for instance, the greater the chances that something can go wrong and there are days where I wonder if I'm herding cats.

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Oh wow! I'm sorry you're experiencing this! I agree with giving her some time and focusing on other things like the rest of your planning and your fiance. Hopefully, she will come around soon!

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Although they're not together anymore I'm glad at the time it was still a great day!! That's what matters most

Definately! Three of my girls were awesome and very involved and happy to be a part of it. I wish his sister would not have been apart of it. The week leading up to it she wanted to keep information from me even when I asked directly about something. She was also texting matron of honor and saying bad things about me. Wish one of my best friends that is so happy for me could have been up there instead

That is false because my three best friends are in my wedding party the only thing I would do is probably put like one or two more people on my side but we decided to keep our wedding party small so I went with the three most important people to me and I wouldn’t change if I can go back and do it again

I wouldn't have agreed to let his daughter be a bridesmaid. She's a 31 year old spoiled brat. She is nice to my face but since i'm not her mother she unfriended me on Facebook and has nothing to do with me. I did tell my fiancee she was out and he agreed. So True

False, I love each one of them dearly.

False. I have had my maid of honor chosen before I even had my fiance. So no.

100% False! I can't imagine having anyone else standing next to me. I had a DREAM TEAM of bridesmaids! I chose the women I did because I knew they would be wonderful. They went above and beyond anything I could have ever expected. Our entire bridal party was just the best.

True because I had pick to many I should only picked a number and stayed with it but I didn’t want to hurt any feelings. The having none sound perfect lol

True, just cause I wish I only had one. I just like the idea of one. I only have 3 so it’s not bad tho.

False, every person I picked mean so much to me and I couldn’t imagine the day without them by my side.

I’ll have a total of 7
Matron of Honor (best friend)
Maid of Honor (sister)
The 5 bridesmaids are my other sister, my cousin, and FH 3 nieces.

I haven't asked my girls yet but I'm already second guessing if I even should! Definitely better to be 100% sure before asking!

False! I wouldn’t change my wedding party for anything! They’re amazing and such a great support.

False. I have my brother and best friend so I'm all set!

False - I'm very happy with my choices, and so far (fingers crossed), not a single one of them has been awkward, or made planning difficult. I appreciate there is time for this to change though!

True! I never would have asked by SIL. She caused some issues and I only picked her so we could use the time to get closer. Didn't happen. We live 30 minutes apart and I only see her 3 times a year unless there is a family event and I'm glad for it.

I don't even want a maid of honor I picked one because I thought I needed to now I regret it

True - My bridesmaids are all young, 2 are my sisters, my future sister-in-law and my best friend. My Maid of honor is 16... and If I could change I would. I'm sure everything will work out fine in the end but the planning stages right now are rough.