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Jayla
Champion October 2025

True or False: If I could switch up my wedding party today with no consequences, I would!

Jayla, on February 5, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 92

Do you regret anything about your wedding party choices? Whether there’s someone you’d want to remove, someone you didn’t think of originally that you’d want to add, or an MOH switch-up - if you had a free pass, would you change anything about your wedding party? True or False? If I could switch up...

Do you regret anything about your wedding party choices? Whether there’s someone you’d want to remove, someone you didn’t think of originally that you’d want to add, or an MOH switch-up - if you had a free pass, would you change anything about your wedding party?

True or False? If I could switch up my wedding party today with no consequences, I would!

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92 Comments

  • maryann
    Expert June 2019
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    True but only for one bridesmaid and maybe one groomsmen that wants to be difficult but he doesn't wanna cross me. So true true true true. Honestly she is one second from being kicked out anyway damn the consequences... she is stressing me the hell out


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  • Frances
    Beginner May 2019
    Frances ·
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    False I love my wedding party now but I have already fired two bridesmaids which lead to me letting two groomsmen go too but now the wedding party is perfect and not to big

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  • Frances
    Beginner May 2019
    Frances ·
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    If she is stressing you out let her go it is your big day and you don't need anything extra bothering you I let two of mine go and I am happy I did it made it an easier process and now everyone functions better together

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  • Yasmin
    Savvy September 2019
    Yasmin ·
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    False .
    I have chosen the best people for my wedding party .
    true.
    I wanted to change some at my hubby’s side, because I basically don’t know them .We are doing the Brazilian style in which both me and my husband , have bridesmaids and groosmen
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  • L
    Beginner March 2019
    Lori ·
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    False I wouldn’t change a thing
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  • Jayla
    Champion October 2025
    Jayla ·
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    Oh wow!! I’ve never heard of the Brazilian style!!
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  • Jayla
    Champion October 2025
    Jayla ·
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    That’s good!!! How is your planning coming along?
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  • Yasmin
    Savvy September 2019
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    Yep . It’s good because then special people form both of us can participate and it’s more balanced.
    We have 5 couples at each side in total : 10 couples
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  • Christy
    Just Said Yes June 2019
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    False maybe a more involved maid of honor but she’s just that type!!!
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  • MrsV1027
    Master October 2018
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    False. We picked the people that meant the most

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  • T
    Beginner October 2020
    Tiffany ·
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    False my 7 girls are the best I love 💕 them all
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  • Melissa
    Beginner May 2019
    Melissa ·
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    I do love that We are having our kids in wedding blending since it’s our second marriage but maid of honor sister not participating a whole lot
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  • Angerra
    VIP August 2019
    Angerra ·
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    False! All of my ladies know my personality so well that they aren't driving me crazy nor are they complaining about not being super involved in the planning process.
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  • Devoted May 2020
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    Not at all! My MOH is my best friend of 2 years now and is so involved in my life and the wedding planning, despite being 2+ hours away. We see each other at least once a month, she’s even coming to my niece’s birthday party and on a cruise with my family in November lol. She’s my biggest defender against people who have been stressing me out and I wouldn’t want anybody else.

    My other three are my sisters and I definitely have no regrets there. Couldn’t have picked a better party 😊
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  • Disneybride
    Dedicated April 2021
    Disneybride ·
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    False my kids will be apart of my bridal party I love them
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  • G
    Savvy July 2019
    Georgia ·
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    False! I love my wedding party!
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  • Jayla
    Champion October 2025
    Jayla ·
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    That's so sweet!!!

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  • Kristine
    Beginner July 2019
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    No wedding party, destination wedding.

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  • L
    Dedicated September 2019
    lovE2019 ·
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    So.. I did this. I realized one girl I had asked to be a bridesmaid did not have my best interests at heart and I had a discussion with her about that and we both decided it was best if she not be a part of the wedding. But it basically means we're done being friends at all. It was a huge decision but long-term for the best.

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  • L
    Dedicated September 2019
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    I was in this situation and ended up giving her the boot! She called me a brides-zilla when I brought up my concerns to her. Keep in mind that asking someone to no longer be a part of your wedding is how you end up losing a friend long term. I talked it out with a lot of people and they pointed out she had always been an issue in my life.

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