I am recently engaged and mostly excited for this amazing next step in my life. However, my mom and dad have been pretty unsupportive of my relationship (we are high school sweethearts). The rest of my family really likes my fiance, my grandparents love him, but my mom dislikes him the most out of anyone. My mom went so far as to say that she'll never forgive me if he didn't ask for a blessing two weeks before he proposed. He didn't tell a soul that he was planning to propose and I said yes because he makes me so intensely happy and is my best friend.
Right now, I am trying to figure out the best way to approach my parents about my engagement because I know they won't be excited and my mom may even be angry. I am not bringing my fiance to this discussion because my mom will for sure just cause a scene and try and rial him up which is what I want to avoid at all costs.
Do I talk to my dad first about my worries on how my mom will react? Do I confront them both? I just want this drama to be over so I can actually enjoy my engagement. I am very willing to cut my mom off if it's going to be a massive deal, but would rather not if it's avoidable. I am not willing to sacrifice mine or my fiance's happiness for their feelings. Any advice is greatly appreciated.
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