Trying to honor loved ones

View Quoted Comment Yes i agree with you and thats what im trying to avoid getting to sad and depressing on my big Day

View Quoted Comment Thank you and it really is so many ways to do it and even though i think whatever way it will be sad i will push through

View Quoted Comment Well, to be honest you may tear up a bit: I know I did when my mom was walked me down. I took a deep breath and let my self just feel the grief for a moment and moved forward like I knew he wanted me too. Thankfully, I didn’t dwell on it though. It was a wonderful day and I knew he was there because of the fingerprint and the scotch! Again the monument/chairs/pictures would have made me dwell on what I lost. You definitely don’t want to be having a major grief spiral on your wedding day! Having the jewelry and scotch were a way of including him. I’d find a way to toast your parents or bring a favourite item/dessert/drink/song/poem of theirs with you. I know it will work out! I’m sure it will be beautiful and I’m sure you’re parents would have loved your wedding day! Sorry for your losses!

View Quoted Comment Thank you so much you really made me think more positive about the whole thing and im going to do the charms and ill add in the song they used for there wedding day to play at some point during wedding reception again from the bottom of my heart thank you 😍