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Mrs.evans
VIP October 2022

Trying to pay on your venue but your job lowers then boon

Mrs.evans, on August 9, 2021 at 12:07 AM Posted in Planning 0 21
I needed to vent My job has cut down my hours where now money that I need to pay for venue and others vendors are slightly in jeopardy. So the money isn't coming in like before and have maintain my other Bill's. My fiance' is doing his best to help I'm really worried about our wedding but with this covid nonsense ppl still catching covid and I am a frontline worker. I am praying that everything going well

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Latest activity by Mrs.evans, on August 28, 2021 at 10:42 PM
  • Jm Sunshine
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    I'm so sorry about the additional stress. You have nearly a year before wedding and when final payments are due. Hopefully your hours will be restored and things will work out.
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  • Meghan
    Master October 2019
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    Can you pick up a second job to supplement?

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  • Michelle
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    I'm sorry that your going through this. Have you thought about doing urbe eats? It's super quick money and a lot safer than actually picking up people. They are super short on drivers so there are a lot of perks right now, like extra cash for each delivery. You could easily make a couple hundred each week. I hope things get better for you. And if they don't just postpone it. I know it's not ideal but times are different now and people will understand.
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  • N
    Expert June 2021
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    Literally had this happen to my husband and I before our wedding this year. In January I was reduced to a part time worker from full time and 8 days later my husband was told his position would be dissolved. Luckily they gave him until March before letting him go. We had to readjust our budget and see what we could afford to save each month to go towards the wedding and bills. We did put some money towards savings since the pandemic started because we saw people losing jobs left and right. I wish you the best of luck!
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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
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    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    Ugh. When we were in the middle of planning/spending I lost my job… found another 6 weeks later at 1/3 the pay. 😭 I hope it’ll all work out. Cut back if you can.
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  • Mrs.evans
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    Thank you so much for the kind words I'm hoping things pick up but the only problem with this is that my whole schedule is going to change. Plus they may not give the time off that I put for my wedding.
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  • Mrs.evans
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    I am trying to do that but this month is hectic because I have children and grandchildren birthday's coming up. Bit I have cut way down on takeout I dont go to the nail salon as often but by the 3rd week I have to go lol and I have cut some other expenses to. I going to keep praying
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  • Mrs.evans
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    Thank you for your support but the first Idea is out but i am still praying that everything comes thru I really don't want to do that I praying that it doesn't come to that
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  • Mrs.evans
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    I just quit a second job 2yrs ago because I fell ill and my doctor doesn't advice it but we will think of something
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  • Mrs.evans
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    Yes I do to and trying to money away every week while not compromising our other Bill's and every day expenses
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  • Mrs.evans
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    Thank you so much for those kind words of support
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  • Michelle
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    Me too! Faith over worry! Sending hugs!
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  • Mrs.evans
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    ❤❤🤗🤗 thank you
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  • Michelle
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    You're welcome my dear! Have a great day!
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  • CountryBride
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    Oh no I am so sorry that your going through this stress would working a 2nd job help? also could you move the date

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  • Davina
    Just Said Yes September 2021
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    Monique, can I ask what state you live in?

    Be well, these times are tough!

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  • Mrs.evans
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    I live in nj
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  • Steph
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    Sending positive vibes your way! If there is one thing I have learned is NOT to stress over money. Cut little costs wherever you can and remember that the same way those hours were cut is the same way you can be blessed abundantly before you know it, so keep a positive mindset and don’t stress.
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  • Mrs.evans
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    I live in nj
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  • Mrs.evans
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    Hi Steph and thanks for the positive vibes I'm trying to keep it all good but with family members passing I'm drowning. I need a metal break and all of this yoyoing around makes with my hours for work. So now we are going to cut down alot of stuff but that means seeing if I can give some money to a family member or friend to do our photo for the wedding. We already are doing our own bridal bouquet and the bountaires for the groom and groomsmen. I have alot of other stuff needed for the wedding but I think I will cut some stuff that we were renting
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