My fiancé and I got engaged this last December and we’re getting married in August… in 2 months! I’m beyond stressed out to the point that I don’t want to have this wedding. I’ve said before we got engaged that we should just elope.
Our venue is free (church), my sisters are covering the catering, we haven’t purchased flowers yet, mainly because I don’t like ANYTHING I look for. I have no direction with a color scheme. I have a “champagne/peach” undertone dress, my fiancé picked out a charcoal blue suit. My bridesmaids have no idea what color dress to get and I unfortunately regret having so many bridesmaids (i chose 6 and my fiancé has 2 groomsmen). I absolutely HATE the peach and blue wedding color combo.. I’m just at a loss for words. We haven’t even sent out save the date cards or wedding invites. We’ve not gotten our wedding bands or talked about vows. There hasn’t been a single step in this entire process that I have enjoyed. I don’t know what to do.
Prior to dress shopping I wanted to just shop alone and pick out a dress that I liked without hearing everyone else’s opinion, my mother made me feel bad about not having a group go with so once I extended that invite, she refused to go, as well as to my bridal shower as well. I hope none of this makes me sound like such an unhappy person, I just genuinely don’t want to do this anymore. I keep hearing from people “oh planning is the worst part, everyone always gets stressed out” but I don’t feel like I’m truly being heard when I’m telling people I don’t want to have a wedding anymore.
To add to the rant, we’re also getting married out of state.. so now I’m juggling travel plans from our state to the state we’ll be married in, to traveling back home and leaving again for a honeymoon.
Is any of this actually possibly to accomplish in our timeframe? Will it actually get better than this, will I still regret everything afterwards? The last thing I want is to go through with this and look back on photos and just look absolutely miserable my entire day.
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