One of my good friends, who’s also a bridesmaid, told me today that she was getting married. Woohoo, I am over the moon for her! She told me that she wanted me to be her maid of honor, I’m thrilled that she asked me and am again, over the moon.
But then —
She tells me that she wants to get married in just a couple of months - okay, doable. She is having a beach wedding and is likely going with a date that will fall on my wedding shower - I'll have to try to figure out a date to move my shower to but still, doable. She wants to make her bachelorette an extended beach trip - so I would have to come the week before her wedding. This would normally be okay, but taking off of work two months before taking two weeks off for my own wedding will be tough. She then tells me to just wear her bridesmaids dress for my wedding because she wants to do the same colors. My wedding colors are pretty unique - shades of burgundy, red and pink. She also said that she may go with my out of state photographer. I’m just a little bummed. Her wedding will be only 2 months ahead of mine and I love the uniqueness of mine and my FH’s wedding plans.
I don’t know why, but I’m torn about how to feel. I know the world doesn’t revolve around me because of my upcoming wedding and I'm so extremely happy for her, but I’m just feeling a little robbed.
Am I completely dramatic?