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Mrs. Katie Rinker
Expert October 2009

Uncle & Niece Wedding Dance Song

Mrs. Katie Rinker, on August 11, 2009 at 7:18 PM Posted in Planning 4 28

Ok, so My uncle raised me from 13yrs. old until I moved out with my FH is walking me down the aisle & I'm dancing with him in leiu of my father. My father is alive but will not be attending our wedding. So, here's the actual question I need a song, I was thinking "Fix You" by Coldplay, but any suggestions are great.. or do you think "Fix you" is appropriate?

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Latest activity by Brionna, on May 13, 2023 at 3:32 AM
  • Teems
    Super October 2009
    Teems ·
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    I am dancing with my uncle to. Thanks for posting. Im stumped.

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  • Bridget Burns-Walsh
    Bridget Burns-Walsh ·
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    Eagles Wings by Bette Midler

    Through the Years - Kenny Rodgers - danced with my uncle to this one!

    good luck

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  • Cathasach
    VIP June 2010
    Cathasach ·
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    My uncle is also walking me (and my dad also won't be at the wedding) and I'm thinking about using In My Life by the Beatles unless I find something more fitting.

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  • Mrs. Katie Rinker
    Expert October 2009
    Mrs. Katie Rinker ·
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    Thank you all for the suggestions!! This is soo.. freaking hard for me!! I don't really like anything, my uncle is younger than most uncles it's my mom's youngest brother he's 42 & im 29! He & his wife took me in when they were newly married with a newborn & a 2 yr.old & they had to deal w/ me during those horrible teenage years.. We both like the same music!! I don't want him to know the song until wedding day, i want it to be a surprise to him.. So i want it to have a lot of meaning of how special he is to me!! Why does this have to be soo hard!! But please keep suggestions coming!! I would have used "My Wish" but my FH & his mom are dancing to that!!

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  • Teems
    Super October 2009
    Teems ·
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    One of the songs of the few songs that I am thinking of is "Tell you something" by Alicia Keys. Since both of my parents have pasted, I figured it would be appropriate. Its about making time to tell your loved ones how much they mean before its too late. If I use it I just hope I don't start balling my eyes out.

    Its just that most songs have been ran into the ground our about intimate love....and I don't want it to have an incestuous feeling lmao. I think for us we definitely should look for the "thank you" kind of songs. Dido had one. I have to read the lyrics to be sure.

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  • future fresh
    Beginner August 2009
    future fresh ·
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    I am also dancing with my uncle and i picked stealing cinderella by chuck wicks its a country song but it's sooo cute

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  • Teems
    Super October 2009
    Teems ·
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    OK so here are some I have reserved on my playlist:

    Because you love me- Celine Dion

    Thank you- Dido

    Isn't she lovely- Stevie wonder

    Ill be there- Mariah Carey or Jackson Five

    How sweet it is (to be loved by you)-Marvin Gaye

    Tell you something- Alicia Keys

    Lean on me or stand by me- Temptations

    I'm your angel- Celine Dion

    Hope that helps get you closer to something you like...I have been looking for months so I know how hard it can be.

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  • Mrs. Katie Rinker
    Expert October 2009
    Mrs. Katie Rinker ·
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    Okay, I'm at a tug of war between Little Wonders (Rob Thomas) & Fix you by Coldplay!! Decisions, Decisions!!!

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  • Fawn
    Super October 2012
    Fawn ·
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    I'm in the same boat too. I was 9 when I moved in with my aunt and uncle and he's been the closest thing to a father for me. Since there are so many people in my life (or no longer in my life, I should say) that wont be at my wedding my whole goal for the day will be to not start crying my eyes out. I plan to pick a "uncle/niece" song that I don't even like just so it wont make me emotional! But I love the Little Wonders song and it really is very fitting for anyone who has been taken in by someone other than your parents!

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  • J
    Just Said Yes June 2014
    Jessica ·
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    I am also dancing with my uncle!!! My father will not be attending my wedding as well due to the fact he has been absent in my life!! So nice to see that I'm not alone with this one! Thank You all for the suggestions!!! I am currently looking some songs up!

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  • J
    Just Said Yes June 2014
    Jessica ·
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    Ok So I have looked at a few other sites and I have found a couple good ones that I am looking at. Such as help pour out the rain-buddy jewell. You look so good in light-George Straight. Stealing Cinderella-Chuck Wicks. Very good but emotional songs! Good luck girls I am in the same boat trying t find that perfect song!

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    Just Said Yes September 2013
    Ashley ·
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    My uncle will also be walking me down the aisle and I am having a very hard time finding a song that suites our relationship. I grew up very close to my uncle but I have not seen him in 8 years, he lives in Seattle and I live in Indiana. My dad committed suicide last year, so my uncle is the next closest man in my life. So I'm gonna ball my eyes out no matter what just because I don't have a choice in not having my dad there. I'm crying now just talking about it! So I want to dance with my uncle but I need a song that's respectful to my dad? Any suggestions?

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    Just Said Yes May 2014
    Jenna ·
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    I am also dancing with my uncle because my father is not in my life. It is nice to know I am not the only one in this situation. I am dancing to the song "Little Wonder" Rob Thomas. I have listened to tons of songs and this is the one that gave me that feeling of "This is the song." Hope this helps. Good luck ladies!!

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    Just Said Yes April 2016
    Casey ·
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    I'm also dancing with my uncle, he's been the closest thing to a father figure that I've had in my life. My dad has been in my life, but only when it's been convenient for him. He got remarried when I was 6 and he's always let his wife keep him from me, so we don't have a great relationship and I will not be inviting him to my wedding. I would like the song we dance to to be a country song to go with my wedding theme, preferably an older song by somebody like George Jones. Any ideas?

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  • K
    Just Said Yes October 2016
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    I am so glad that I am not the only one in this boat! My dad is not in my life. I will be dancing with three of my uncles. Thanks for all of the ideas!

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  • Fernandez2018
    Super August 2018
    Fernandez2018 ·
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    I am in the same situation! my uncle loves The Beatles so I'm thinking "in my life" would be a great song. this is harder than i thought.

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    Check out the Song section on WW! There are a lot of songs listed under Father / Daughter and Mother / Son dance that don't explicitly state your relationship!

    I danced to How Sweet It Is by James Taylor and that doesn't say anything about dads / daughters!

    Other ideas are:

    My Wish - Rascall Flats

    You've Got A Friend In Me (from Toy Story)

    Count On Me - Bruno Mars

    I'll Be There - Jackson 5

    Lean on Me

    I'll Be There For You - The Rembrandts

    https://www.weddingwire.com/wedding-songs

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  • K
    Just Said Yes December 2019
    Karla ·
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    It makes my heart smile seeing how common this is. My dad nor my stepdad will be at my wedding and my uncle was my first choice to fill in for walking me down the aisle. Thank you everyone for sharing and offering suggestions! ❤️
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  • Jassmine
    Just Said Yes July 2021
    Jassmine ·
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    I’m dancing with my uncle I’m so excited
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  • Jaime
    Just Said Yes September 2021
    Jaime ·
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    I’m dancing with my uncle too since my dad passed this year. I’m 21 and having a very hard time with this. My wedding is next year and I don’t know if I’ll ever find the right song
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