It’s a few months away, but I’m trying to figure out what to do about my fiancé’s younger sister and my bachelorette party. My friends and I are planning a lake weekend. Nothing crazy but probably a lingerie shower and I really want to visit a local winery. So there will be SOME alcohol, but not a lot. My MIL is very opposed to drinking so I know if I say something to her about the party she’ll automatically assume i want to get trashed and that is why I’m not inviting her daughter. In all honesty, she’s 10 years younger than all my other bridesmaids, doesn’t know any of my friends, plus she lives in a different state and doesn’t have a car, so my MIL would probably have to drive her and pick her up from the lake which is about 5 hours from their home. It doesn’t make sense for her to come but I want to make sure she feels included.
Right now my plan is to invite her and my MIL to a concert in Nashville which is close to my hometown, and about 3 hours for them, and pay for their tickets and hotel room. They loooove concerts. That way we could have a little girl time but I could still do the lake weekend with my friends. Do you think I should just approach it with “she’s younger than the rest of the group and doesn’t know anyone” and not mention alcohol?? I don’t want my MIL mad at me but I also don’t think a 17yo should be at a cabin with 27yo bridesmaids and a shower with lingerie for me and her brother! 🤣
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