We always hear about the divorce rate, but there is a different group of people who stay together even though they don’t like each other. Some of the people I work with are in their 40's, 50's, and 60's and a lot have a disdain towards their spouses. Some people take work assignments that involve living in different countries just so they can get away from their spouse.
I have a neighbor who travels a lot and one time I told him I would miss my boyfriend if I was gone as much as him. He responded “I don’t miss (wife’s name). We have been married for 25 years.” These people will often tell me not to get married. That “it sucks”. Many of the parents of friends I grew up with also are unhappily married. They stay together but don’t want to be around each other.
Is it just human nature that we get tired of someone after being with them for so long? Do any of you worry about this too? I have been with my FH almost 12 years and don’t feel like this, but I wonder if this will change.