We’ve decided to not have kids at our wedding. My fiancé’s brother is traveling from Hawaii and will have a 10 month old. Even though we’ve said no kids 100 times they obviously feel the need to bring her. Here’s the issue: we’ve kindly ask that she not attend the ceremony. And they’ve flat out said no. She’s a wiggly, and shrieking baby who will undoubtedly draw attention away from us and onto herself. We’ve offered to hire a babysitter for her (for the 20 minutes) or said that her mom can sit with her in the reception space. They’ve now thrown down an ultimatum saying “if she (baby) doesn’t get to sit in the ceremony space - we aren’t coming at all.” WTF. Who does that? S.O.S.
IMO he’s a real crappy person and idc if he’s there or not. My fiancé who has a strained relationship with him (because of the SIL) thinks we should just I’ve them what they want to keep the peace.
Anyone else dealt with thjs.