I was wondering, what is everyone thoughts on the unity candle or unity sand part of the ceremony?
My fiancé and I are thinking of not doing it, and having something special for my mom and I. like a song just for her and I to dance to maybe. there are a few reason behind it. my mom had 2 strokes between now and December 25 2020. the one on Christmas was her 1st one. the 2nd was i think in February. she is doing well, but she does not have the strength she use to. keeps dropping things. especially with her left had. she felt horrible when she broke one of my mugs i gave her when i moved back home. i was more concerned if she cut herself than the fact of a broken mug. so i don't want to chance a fire by her dropping the lit candle or sand everywhere by her dropping the glass holder. she is cool with it all, no matter what we decide. plus it will save time and money for us as well.
just wanting some other input from those on this site.
