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Samantha
Savvy November 2021

Unplugged ceremony

Samantha, on June 11, 2021 at 1:53 PM

Posted in Wedding Ceremony 27

Has anyone had an issue getting their parents on board with an unplugged ceremony? I want the photographer to get beautiful photos without phones in the way but my parents are convinced that the crowed can get just as good of a photo and that we should let people take their phones out. I also want...
Has anyone had an issue getting their parents on board with an unplugged ceremony? I want the photographer to get beautiful photos without phones in the way but my parents are convinced that the crowed can get just as good of a photo and that we should let people take their phones out. I also want everyone to be present in the moment and not have their face in their phones during the ceremony.

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  • Alexandria
    Savvy October 2021
    Alexandria ·
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    I'm having a sign and my officiant announce this at my wedding. This is not rude and just a simple request to your guest to be in the moment with you. There's a lot of photos online of people shoving an iPad into the walkaway or completely blocking the view for photographers. *cringe*

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  • L
    Beginner August 2021
    Leslie ·
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    Do you have a picture of your sign? I would love to see it! I was going to buy one on etsy but I'm looking for other options.

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  • Samantha
    Savvy November 2021
    Samantha ·
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    Kinda, so I got mine off Etsy through Weddingsdecorstudio and I love it! It’s such great quality. It’s larger than I thought, thick and heavy too. I want to add flowers like in the picture from the Etsy website but I’m not sure if I will or not because that’s just extra money going out and it looks great alone too. Unplugged ceremony 1
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  • SLY
    Master January 2022
    SLY ·
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    I don't have a picture of the actual sign, but here's the design I created using Canva! Short, sweet, and to the point. I just had it printed on white foam board from Vistaprint and it turned out great!

    Unplugged ceremony 3


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  • I
    Expert August 2021
    Ingrid ·
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    I have to ask...how are you supposed to make this happen? Yes put a sign out, make an announcement, but as we all know people will do what they want when they want. So with this clause in your contract is your photographer going to stop taking pictures when they see a cell phone? Just seems like an odd clause since you can't control what other people do.

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  • Jackie
    Savvy January 2022
    Jackie ·
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    I didn’t think it was that odd lol. If your photographer is ahead of you trying to take photos as you walk down the aisle and you have guests shoving their phones into the aisle it interferes with their work. At the end of the day of course you can’t really control what people do. I’m not sure what the photographs process is for this. Give dirty looks until they stop? Shoo them? Lol I don’t know. But I understand the need for stating that people can’t have phones out
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  • Katie
    Expert August 2021
    Katie ·
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    Oh yea I heard the same thing. I also attended a wedding where the ceremony was unplugged and the photographer ended up losing all the photos. The only photos that the couple had were at the reception when guests were allowed to take pictures. But they didn't have a single photo of the ceremony. It was ashame. But I think it definitely is a freak accident thing that barely ever happens. Im all for my guests taking video and photos. Like you said some of the best pictures are from guests. You have one professional photographer or maybe 2 but they can't capture everything. Some guests can catch things either from a different angle or just something the photographer didn't get because they were busy getting other photos.


    With that being said, if you want an unplugged wedding have one. It's your wedding not your parents. You get to decide not your parents.
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