For example, among all the child free weddings, do you want kids in attendance? Or are you in favor of desserts only instead of a full dinner or say a margarita bar if that’s what your guests prefer instead of beer/wine only? Are you anti- dress code on the invitation or don’t want anyone who is in attendance to lift a finger including at the ceremony if they are not a bridesmaid/groomsman?
What are your opinions that differ from the popular crowd without sacrificing guests’ comfort and courtesy towards them?