I'm unsure what to do, one of my bridesmaids has basically stopped responding to me in the wedding group chat and outside in our personal messaging. She opens and looks at them-I always make my messages have some sort of question to encourage a response and I've tried not talking about the wedding either. We worked together for a couple of years and were good friends and when I asked her to be a bridesmaid she was excited and on board and had lots of advice. I ended up quitting my job about a month after I asked her because my personal life overwhelmed me and she knows all about what I was going through so she was aware why I left. Since I have left my job she gradually stopped messaging me and responding to messages. She came wedding dress shopping 6 months ago but literally bailed on bridesmaids dress shopping the day before-which I had planned a month in advance and kept everyone updated on every single bit of the day because it was important to me that all my girls looked and felt fantastic but also fit into my vision. She said the day worked and then the week of she left all my messages unopened to the point that I had to find her the day before at school pick-up for our kids because I just needed to know if she was coming because we were carpooling and I didn't want to be waiting for her if she wasn't even coming...at which point she still said she didn't know and messaged me that night that she wasn't allowed to take the day off-which I worked there and know they let people take days whenever they want-I did end up just picking a dress for her and I sent her the exact dress and color, I tried to keep it to a style I felt she was comfortable in...She saved the image but has said nothing else about the picture or if she ordered it or anything...I was preparing to just have an honest talk about if she felt she just wasn't feeling the wedding anymore but my sister, the MOH, told me she was actively responding to the bachelorete chat...which I'm not part of because they want it to be a surprise...meanwhile the bridesmaid has not acknowledged my messages to her in almost two weeks...along with a questionnaire I asked everyone to fill out to help me plan some things and make it work for everyone...like I've honestly just tried to make it so easy and straight forward and am honestly wondering if our friendship was just convienence of working together every single day...it would almost be easier if she was ignoring the bach chat too...help?
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