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Sarah
Dedicated September 2019

Unwanted Weight Loss from Stress?

Sarah, on September 10, 2019 at 9:38 AM Posted in Fitness and Health 0 4

I am putting this here because my fiance has worked his butt off to get down to his target weight & doesn't deserve to have to listen to me have the opposite problem. I am 5'0" and tiny. The problem is, I'm 11 days from my wedding and today my clothes feel uncomfortably loose. I'm too busy with last-minute wedding stuff to even go to the gym so ugh! I'm worried my beautiful dress is going to look flat and gap open to show the fact that I have basically no boobs now...anybody else have this problem? How do I de-stress enough to get through the next two weeks?

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Latest activity by Sarah, on September 12, 2019 at 9:52 AM
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    Hi! I am 52 and petite.. weight has always been problem for me.. it’s very hard for me to gain weight- even while I was pregnant , the week after delivery I was back to my tiny self 🙄 I’ve tried everything but have learned to love my body the way it is— working out helps me gain mass and keep it monitored.. but when anxiety and stress sneak up I lose lose lose so I totally understand where you are coming from - try to meditate- yoga helps a lot !!! And just remember to breathe !!! It’ll be okay! Also your seamstress might be able to fix a few small things last minute that you aren’t comfortable with!
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  • Katie
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    I am 4' 11" and gaining weight has been a problem I have dealt with since high school. I have always been way underweight and right now I am the most I have EVER weighed at a whole 95 lbs. I have to give all the credit to Oreos 😂 my average weight was about 83 - 85 so I started eating a whole section of Oreos each night before bed and I gained 10 lbs
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  • Thea
    Savvy September 2019
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    I totally understand! I lost weight from stress so my dress had to be altered significantly from when I originally bought it. My weight hasn't fluctuated since when I was very young, so this change was surprising and disheartening when I realized none of my clothes fit anymore.

    My FW had the opposite experience and gained weight, so while it is an interesting conversation, I would recommend getting your stressed out emotions off your chest. You don't need to mention weight to talk about stress/anxiety.

    My suggestion would be to treat yourself as much as possible these next few weeks. Bubble baths, aromatherapy, naps, and tons of good, protein-rich food.

    Otherwise, consider using a padded bra if you want it, and just focus on looking confident and feeling beautiful the day of! Good luck!

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  • Sarah
    Dedicated September 2019
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    Thanks, ladies. Good to know I'm not the only one with this issue. The stress was largely self-imposed due to perfectionism I realized. Doing my best to focus on one task/day at a time, and make time to meditate and be in the moment. Smiley heart

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