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samantha
Devoted January 2017

Ushers vs. Bridesmaids

samantha, on November 11, 2016 at 2:11 PM

Posted in Wedding Attire 164

I have 2 girls who are ushers. My question here is I am going to purchase the BMs robes for the day of the wedding- should I also get them robes to wear as well while getting ready? They were happy to be the ushers but I just want them to be totally included because I love them so just need a little...

I have 2 girls who are ushers. My question here is I am going to purchase the BMs robes for the day of the wedding- should I also get them robes to wear as well while getting ready? They were happy to be the ushers but I just want them to be totally included because I love them so just need a little advice here. TYIA- PS are robes a good choice or should I do something else? Wedding is 1/28/17

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  • samantha
    Devoted January 2017
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    @grechen thank you, i will definitely post photos!

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  • MNBride
    Master June 2017
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    Op did you also include your honey fund on the invite or just the dress code & adults only?

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  • samantha
    Devoted January 2017
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    @BOozybaker sorry women are opinionated, I am one... That is what we are especially in these types of situations. If women weren't opinionated then why all the riff raf about my question which went off topic?

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  • samantha
    Devoted January 2017
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    Dress code and adults only- honey fund was for bridal shower.

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  • TreeShade
    Master September 2016
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    OP-Correction: the conversation flowed naturally.

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  • Phylicia
    Super April 2017
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    OP - we had tanks/muscle shirts, we didn't have a problem with hair or make up, its wide enough to pull over, bride actually slipped hers down her waist, rather than over her head. and they were cheap , and it was white, so I could wear it under a lot of other shirts no problem! I also have a bazillion flower girls. all mine and FH nieces. I only have a MOH, no bridesmaids though. No ring bearers because apparently my brothers can't produce boys!

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  • Mrs. TacoCat
    VIP September 2016
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    "it is going to be a movie" lol... ok :-)

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  • samantha
    Devoted January 2017
    samantha ·
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    I think I am very classy, my wedding will be very classy too. Symmetry is important to me. What is important to me, may not be important to you. You will not always agree with someone else and their decisions.

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  • TreeShade
    Master September 2016
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    You can't quote symmetry unless you recruit 5 more ring bearers just saying

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  • MMB
    Master January 2017
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    Then why don't you have 6 ring bearers??? You're contradicting yourself.

    ETA: and yes you don't have to agree that friendships are more important than symmetry, but I reserve the right to side eye all of this.

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  • BoozyBaker
    Master January 2017
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    "6 flower girls"

    "1 ring bearer"

    "symmetry is important to me"


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  • Swin.
    Master June 2016
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    Wait....

    honey fund was for bridal shower.

    honey fund was for bridal shower.

    honey fund was for bridal shower.

    honey fund was for bridal shower.

    honey fund was for bridal shower.

    honey fund was for bridal shower.

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  • TreeShade
    Master September 2016
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    This just got interesting


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  • M
    Master July 2015
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    Classy is not a state of mind, it's how others would describe you.

    Other Samantha, I don't think you're ridiculous, I think you're classless. That's the difference. And it's only based on everything you've voluntarily chosen to present. Thank your god all you want.

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  • Mrs. TacoCat
    VIP September 2016
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    ...


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  • M
    Master July 2015
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    YES YOU ARE SAYING SYMMETRY IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOUR FRIENDS. YOU HAVE VOLUNTARILY CHOSEN SOMETHING TOTALLY INSIGNIFICANT OVER PEOPLE. SO FUCKED.

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  • TreeShade
    Master September 2016
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    Let's cool our jets about the other Samantha for a second. I need OP to explain more about the Honeyfund being only for the Bridal Shower?

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  • MrsLaurenET
    Master September 2016
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    A honeyfund for a black tie wedding. FFS. Are you joking?

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  • Swin.
    Master June 2016
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    Yes... I agree. Do tell more, sam. I'm dying to hear about your honeyfund.

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  • samantha
    Devoted January 2017
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    Are you all done?

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