My mom asked me a few days ago to uninvite all of my family and friends attending my shower who are not vaccinated...my shower is this weekend. FH's cousin is unvaccinated (they do not meet age requirements) as is his aunt. They are both super respectful though of other's concerns as they wear their masks and social distance. Additionally, my shower is going to be hosted outside.
Is it rude of my mom to ask this at the last minute? I am genuinely understanding of the concern, but if they are being mindful of others and taking all the appropriate precautions (mask wearing, getting tested before, etc.) it almost seems rude to me to ask them not to come last minute. Had this been brought up a few weeks ago, I might have been able to have an honest and thoughtful conversation.