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Danielle
Savvy February 2022

Vendor Hotel Rooms

Danielle, on February 23, 2021 at 6:21 AM Posted in Planning 1 11

Hey everyone!

So, we made the difficult decision to postpone our May 29. 2021, wedding until Feb. 5, 2022, due to COVID. In the end, we just want the beautiful wedding that we have put so much money and time into planning.

All of our vendors (venue included) were very understanding and had absolutely no problem rescheduling to our new date ... except one: hair & makeup stylist team.

At first, she tried charging me a postponement fee of around $400. I told her from my understanding of the contract, those fees were tied into a cancelation issue, so I said ok, keep what I gave you and reimburse me the difference. She then came back and said she would wave the fee, but I would lose my initial deposit ($100) so I would continue on with her. OK, fine. Then, a new contract was drawn up with some very notable changes. 1. I need to pay a $300 nonrefundable/nontransferable deposit ($250 to go towards final bill), 2. I need to keep my credit card stored on Square -- only platform on which she now accepts a deposit. and 3. In the event of predicted inclement weather, we must pay for hotel accommodations for her and her team.

The issues all around are ok enough for me to accept ... however, paying for a hotel room for her and her other stylists if snow is forecasted?? Has anyone heard of such a stipulation by a vendor? Her team is less than 20 miles from our venue. We live in upstate NY, so there's always a chance of snow in February. Am I wrong to think this part of the new contract is absurd? The last thing I want to worry about the day before my wedding is whether I have to find/pay for a vendor's hotel stay.

I did tell her I think this stipulation is unreasonable but she is sticking to it being necessary. Please share your thoughts. Smiley heart Thanks!



11 Comments

Latest activity by Hanna, on February 26, 2021 at 11:16 AM
  • Sharon
    Super September 2021
    Sharon ·
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    You are not wrong. That is absurd!!
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  • Ava
    VIP May 2022
    Ava ·
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    Never heard of that stipulation for a local vendor before. I think I would be looking for a different HMUA
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  • Michelle
    Master April 2021
    Michelle ·
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    I’d cut ties- I’ve never heard of someone footing the bill if it snows. I’d let her know that either she takes it out or you’re finding another vender.
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  • Alyssa
    Super October 2023
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    If you really want to keep her and like her work, I'd say have her change that only if theres a driving ban. Which we get here in buffalo maybe once a year at most. But if she's one of those "I don't drive in the snow people" Then tell her to move. lol

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    Liz ·
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    Is she able to give more details of what would constitute ‘inclement weather’?I can see why a room would make sense if it is weather that would stop her getting to you, but for a 20 minute drive by someone used to local winter weather, I’d hope ‘inclement’ meant something really severe.

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    Devoted May 2021
    Ally ·
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    I would not sign that contract. Sounds like shes trying to rip you off and isnt trustworthy. When you own a business, there are certain risks involved but some business owners think that means they should nickle and dime their customers for everything.
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  • Michelle
    Rockstar December 2022
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    That is beyond crazy. Drop her immediately. She's only after your money. Then call the bank to dispute charges.

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  • Hanna
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    Hanna ·
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    I agree with the others that is very strange, and I would not sign that contract. I hope you can find another vendor who you like!

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    Super December 2020
    Anais ·
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    That is crazy. I live right by the mountains, we got married in December where a chance of snow was expected. All our vendors had to drive over the mountains (about 1h30 drive) and none of them made that stipulation.
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  • Danielle
    Savvy February 2022
    Danielle ·
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    Thank you all so much for your input! I'm so glad I'm not the only one who feels this way. I let her know that I am not signing the contract nor moving forward with her for my wedding day. I wished her luck in the future and left it at that. She replied with a defensive message, but I'm not going to respond. #overit

    Winter brides: Make sure you read your contract in case your vendor wants you to pay for hotel accommodations if "inclement weather" is predicted. It's such a subjective and absurd clause and there are other vendors who would love your business. Smiley heart

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  • Hanna
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    Hanna ·
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    You definitely did the right thing!

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