So we had originally planned to use my FH's church as a venue. It's very old and beautiful. He'd like to get married there if possible, but we're not religious so it's not a deal breaker. For the church we'd have to do every single thing ourselves. I would need to hire a decorator because I don't want to decorate the church myself. Well now we might have to pay 1,000-1,500 to use the space (still waiting on a confirmation) but nothing is included at all. I have been looking at back up venues. We already have a photographer and DJ booked that we are sticking with. I found one that would be $1,000 for the entire 12 hours ceremony and reception included. It also included all linens, centerpieces and decorations they have there, glassware and dishes, and they decorate and tear down. They also allow us to bring in any outside vendors and serve our own alcohol with an insurance policy purchased. They have our date available. I'm just torn. Do I go with the wedding venue that is less stress and honestly sounds like a better deal? I think if I DIY and rent everything myself for the church I might spend more than 1,000 plus a huge stress and headache.
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