Venue is not working with us!

Help ! Advice ! Anything . So long story short since I did post something similar . We have finally was able to talk to Venus and reached them . They didn’t answer us all last week except once and I send out an email and only then they responded to us. So we told them how we feel and it’s not safe for us and everything. They told us they can move our wedding to Jan or Feb or 2021 and if we want to move into spring months it will be extra expense they said if we move to July next year it would be double of what we paid which is so insane to me . We asked and then they quickly interrupted us and told us to think about it overnight . I got so upset and called my FH and asked him hey maybe we can do March first week at this point and we called back and he said extra expense again and need to talk to his brother and lawyer again mind you we asked him about this extra fee all week when he picked up last week and told us he need to come up with a fee this going to week 2 . Now I can’t afford some crazy fee I’m currently unemployed due to covid . We located in NJ and wedding is 80 day’s pretty much . We feel it’s not safe and my FH is immunocompromised and just feel it won’t be safe at all for everyone . We have paid over 10k and we have worked hard for this day . I’m so upset the owners are not trying to work with us and I always imagined my day in the summer and I’m willing to take May and when I say March even the owner was iffy . I’ve been crying I don’t know what to do ! I wish that was easy for us . My friends who have other venues had no issue with moving their date . I’m just so lost . Help with any advice or experience??? I can’t afford to in February and what if it’s not safe still and it’s cold . They say corona and flu will be bad together in winter and I just don’t know ..........I don’t know why I’m even posting this literally so depressed at this point because this pandemic has not been easy and I have been unemployed too . Well any advice ?